TunnelServer: Don't disconnect client on DEL_SUBNET too

TunnelServer: Don't disconnect client on DEL_SUBNET too

Similar changes as was in 2327d3f6eb5982bcc922ff1ab1ec436ba6aeffdc
but for del_subnet_h().

Before, we vere returning false (and causing disconnect of the
client) in case of tunnelserver and the client sending DEL_SUBNET
for non-his subnet or for subnet which owner isn't in our connection
list.

After the mentioned change to add_subnet_h() that routine does not
add such indirect owners to the connection list anymore, so that
was ok (owner == NULL and we return true).

But if we too has a connection with the node about which the client
is sending DEL_SUBNET notification, say, because that client lost
connection with that other node, we'll disconnect this client from
us too, returning false for indirect DEL_SUBNET.

Fix that by allowing and ignoring indirect DEL_SUBNET in tunnelserver
mode.

Also rearranged the function a bit, to match add_subnet_h() (in
particular, syntax-check everything first, see if we've seen this
request before).

And also fix some comments.